Posted on August 25, 2008
The clock is ticking away for the class of 2009. With just two semesters left, the seniors’ days of midterms, frat parties and grilled cheese Thursdays will soon be coming to an end. They will accept their diplomas in May and step into the world, permanently leaving behind their lives as undergraduates.
Beginning a new life chapter can be both overwhelming and exciting, which explains why students commonly feel a mix of emotions toward the thought of graduating.
“I am torn because I absolutely love it here,” said senior Brandon Bebout, “but I think when the time comes I will be ready to move on to the next stage in my life.”
Bebout, a computer science major, who started a photography business this summer, and said he is “super excited” about his future, despite being uncertain about his post graduation plans.
“I have no idea where I want to live,” he said. “I am not sure if I want to pursue my career in photography or computer science. I have always been the kind of person to wing it. It’s just something I thrive on.”
Nursing major and senior Victoria Hannemann has a post graduation plan, but admits she still feels a little apprehensive.
“I feel like school doesn’t really prepare us for life,” said Hannemann. “I’m not nervous about getting a job, because nursing is in high demand, but I’m worried about things like setting up a 401(k), buying a home, having a mortgage and figuring out health insurance.”
To keep from stressing too much, Hannemann reminds herself that her parents will still be there for guidance after graduation.
“I know they’ll help me figure everything out,” she said. “I’m in no rush to do it all on my own.”
After graduating next May, Hannemann will wait until July to begin her nursing career. She hopes to spend her time off backpacking through Europe, which she plans to afford by booking early and staying in hostels.
“It’s a chance to do something big before I get tied down by a full-time job with minimal vacation time,” said Hannemann.
Like Hannemann, senior class President Larson Thune hopes traveling is in his future.
“My career plan is to win the lottery and spend my life sailing around the world,” he jokingly said. “We’ll see how that goes.”
Thune expresses no nervousness about graduating, but is saddened at the thought of leaving JMU.
“I’m seriously considering picking up a music major and starting a new four years here,” said Thune. “I don’t want to leave.”
Thune and senior Rebecca Walton are both amazed at how quickly their time at JMU has gone.
“Every time I look back over a semester, I think where did it go?” said Walton.
Walton, a Media Arts and Design major, who jokingly calls herself obsessive compulsive and has been stressing over graduation since her freshman year. Since securing her future job this summer, however, Walton is feeling significantly calmer. After graduation, she will begin working at Phelps Media Group, an equestrian public relations firm based in Florida. While she’s excited about starting what she considers her dream job, she knows relocating will have its challenges.
“I wish I had more time to spend with my friends before I move,” said Walton. “That is the scariest part, moving to an area where I don’t know anyone.”
Seniors who are feeling depressed or extremely stressed out over graduation should consider stopping by the JMU Counseling and Student Development Center located in Varner House, which offers individual and group counseling.
“I know sometimes graduating seniors are apprehensive to leave this more protected environment and have some self-doubts about taking on adult responsibilities,” said Shirley Cobb the center’s associate director. “Many times seniors wonder if there really is life after college- a life that is fun and meaningful, and they may need to talk about that with a trusted adult or counselor.
